tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9313009.post2940719286947692661..comments2024-03-01T21:01:15.174-06:00Comments on Biblical Christianity: Married to an unbelieverDJPhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16471042180904855578noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9313009.post-82911891988043587372013-02-22T17:37:32.050-06:002013-02-22T17:37:32.050-06:00I'm mulling this one over, a LOT - it hits all...I'm mulling this one over, a LOT - it hits all-too-close to home. Have appreciated your exhortation to read 1 Peter as well.Carl C.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02186935981253723026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9313009.post-78939541062926532822013-02-21T11:02:53.220-06:002013-02-21T11:02:53.220-06:00Husband and I went to Christian marriage counselin... Husband and I went to Christian marriage counseling many years ago. One overwhelming recollection from that time was a similar realization: "wait...you mean I shouldn't be waiting for *him* to do it first??? Ohhhh.....:::gulp:::." The heart of the matter was recognizing that my pursuit of changing *him* was a desperately wrong pursuit. I was squinting around the logs in my own eyes, trying to poke the specks out of his. You can imagine how much pain my lack of sight caused. <br /><br />Anyway. Yes - he longs for respect. But that can only be given *sincerely* when God and I have taken care of those logs that obscure my vision of all the good and respectable qualities God created in my husband.<br /><br />Colloquisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08530006843488477150noreply@blogger.com